“Dating” 101

Dates are a sweet fruit that pack a serious punch of nutrition, carrying numerous health benefits every time you eat them. Considering their small size, 2 dried dates contain roughly 135 calories, so be mindful of your portions because it’s easy to overeat if you are trying to lose weight. Calories aside, they’re loaded with fiber, vitamins, and minerals which make them a powerhouse fruit and give you all the more reason to add them to your diet.

Dates are packed with vitamins the body needs for survival, most importantly they contain a high amount of B vitamins, namely Folic Acid and Niacin, but also contain amounts of Pantothenic Acid, Pyridoxine, Riboflavin, and Thiamin… and you thought meat was the only source of B vitamins. B vitamins are essential for our bodies and help with the metabolism of food, formation of new red blood cells, growth and development, skin health, and improvement in the nervous system. Dates also include vitamin A, which is important for eye health, vitamin K, which helps with normal blood clotting, and Vitamin C, which supports the immune system.

Dates are an excellent source for minerals that your body relies on for optimal function. The mineral potassium can be found in large quantities in dates, which helps regulate fluid balance, heart beat, blood pressure, and nerve impulses. Other minerals in dates include copper, manganese, magnesium, calcium, phosphorus, iron, and zinc. The combination of magnesium, calcium, and phosphorus make dates an excellent choice for maintaining bone health, and magnesium is also reported to help decrease inflammation of the body, effectively reducing inflammation in the arterial walls which help reduce the risk of cardiovascular disease.

It appears that dates are natures best multivitamin but due to their high fiber content dates also aid in proper digestion, help relieve constipation, and improve other intestinal disorders. In addition to their fiber, dates can serve as a great source of energy before a workout or to help manage low blood sugar because their sugars are rapidly absorbed by the bloodstream. Note, the high carbohydrate content in dates can be harmful to diabetics if your blood sugar is not under control, so consult with you doctor first so you can monitor your blood sugar and determine how dates affect you.

Try dates alone as a snack, blend them into a smoothie, add them to yogurt or oatmeal, include them in a salad, or bake with them for a healthier dessert. Dates are fat free which make them a healthy alternative to most traditional desserts and, as mentioned, they deliver a broad spectrum of health benefits that you miss with most other sweet treats. Adding dates to your diet, in moderation, offers your body the nutrients it needs to maintain a state of health and wellness.

 

Dedicate Yourself

Learning how to stay on track and dedicated when obstacles present themselves on your fitness journey is one of the keys to success. Your goals could be anything; weight loss, rehabilitation to a pain free knee, building a business, improving yourself, graduating from school. Through dedication you build habits that help you reach your goal and then sustain the results. What is the difference between a habit and a dedication? Dedication is being committed to a purpose, task or goal. A habit is something you do without thinking about. Fortunately the two go hand in hand. The more dedication you practice the more something becomes a habit or natural response.

 

So what habits should you spend time working on and developing and what habits should you work on breaking? To answer this, begin with the end in mind, have a vision of how you want to see yourself in 1 week, 1 month, 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, etc. Visualize and imagine how you want your life to be and then set (do-able) daily habits for yourself that help you reach that end goal. The steps you know you need to take to accomplish these goals are examples of the good habits I am talking about. Spending more time doing the right types of habits will simultaneously cause your bad habits to dominate less and less of your life but this is where dedication comes in. You have to commit to doing these things with a “no matter what” attitude not a “mañana, mañana” attitude. Once you are consistent with whatever those habits are, continue to perfect those habits, and then add some more challenging tasks that will cause you to develop more positive habits and progress you towards the life you want for yourself.

 

Whatever your goal may be, you have to practice dedication to get to where you want or what you want. Once you get what you want, you have to be consistent with your good habits to keep your progress. Developing these types of good habits will cause you to take a more proactive role in reaching your new goals as you find previous obstacles limited to your new natural habits that you built from dedication.

Your Body vs. Your Mind

It’s fascinating how the mind and body are connected and the way your body feels on any given day can dictate your state of mind. I believe it’s of the utmost importance to fuel your body with the proper energy, primarily coming from nutrient dense foods. In my experience, this leads to improvement in my mood, my thoughts, and my behavior.

As a personal trainer, I’ll never pretend that I have it all figured out and that my life is perfectly healthy and balanced. I struggle with the same temptations we all do, I get a craving for ice cream and then I want more… and then I want cookies too! However, I see the correlation between what I eat and my energy. When I eat for nutritional purposes I am sustained with energy all day long, I sleep better, I spring out of bed in the morning, and whatever stresses come my way throughout the day I handle them. On the opposite end of the spectrum, when I eat out often or overindulge in sweets, my mood changes and I no longer feel like doing the things I know I should be doing for my health. First, I get down on myself for eating poorly in the first place, then my workouts “somehow” get skipped, I start neglecting routine tasks because I see them as chores, and finally I get lazy because my body isn’t fueled properly and so my mind doesn’t cooperate.

I am aware of the popular slogan “mind over matter” but when my body and brain are both operating in a physiological wasteland from the junk I have been feeding it, I’ll be the first to admit, it’s hard to shift out of neutral into first gear. Once I start noticing that my energy level is declining, I know it’s time to change the way I have been eating and start the journey toward refueling my body with the nutrients it needs to fuel my mind and drive me into sixth gear!

Fortunately I am capable of restoring my health through what I eat which energizes me to workout and hustle daily. In the same breath, I also know how easy it is to fall into the vicious cycle that eating for emotional purposes creates. It’s hard to get the energy you need to make it through your day, let alone make time to workout, when the only things you’re feeding your body is mostly cinnamon rolls and cheese burgers. The first step is recognizing that this isn’t setting you up for a healthy life, the next step is coming up with a plan to change your eating habits. The plan could be as simple as starting to drink a glass of water every morning when you wake up or as detailed as eating a fruit or vegetable with every meal. If you change what you feed your body, this will contribute to a healthier state of mind.

Self Discipline

Discipline is the key to success because it allows you to have a sense of control over your day by day and minute by minute obligations. Without self discipline we are at the mercy of our emotions, saying “oh I’ll do that when I feel like it.” When self discipline is part of your life it allows you to get what you need done, no matter how you feel.
Self discipline comes down to doing the things you should do because you need to do them and not letting yourself wait until you’re in the mood. News flash, there will never be a convenient time in your day to do the things you need to get done. You have to be like Nike and, Just Do It.
Discipline is one of the most important things we can develop in our lives because, without it, we never get that continual progress toward what we really want. I’m sure there are areas in your life that you wish you had more disciple, like eating healthier, exercising more, practicing your music, standing up for yourself, and staying committed to your big dream. There’s a saying that goes, “with a little discipline you do little things, with a lot of discipline you do a lot of things, and with enough discipline there is nothing which you can’t do.” To begin practicing self discipline, start simple, think of something you can start doing every day no matter what. This could be drinking a glass of water as soon as you wake up, or putting your shoes on the shoe rack and not leaving them in the middle of your room at the end of each day. Little things that help you become better and lead you toward your end goal.

Summer Salad

This is our go to salad for any dinner or party we are contributing to! It is super easy to make, minimal ingredients and you make everything down to the dressing, so you know exactly what is in it! This refreshing salad also makes for a great lunch and will be the talk of your next office party or summer cookout!

How to make it:

Dressing:

  • 1 C Strawberries
  • ¼ C Olive Oil or Avocado Oil
  • ¼ C Balsamic Vinegar
  • 1 TBSP Dijon Mustard
  • 1TBSP Honey
  • 1 Clove of Garlic
  • 1 Pinch of Salt
  • 1 Pinch of Pepper

Put all of the items above in your blender, NutriBullet or whatever you got and blend it up! Once that is done put it in a container in the fridge to chill. Make sure the container you put it in pours easily and you can control how much dressing you are putting on the salad, it doesn’t need much!

Salad:

  • Bed of Spinach
  • 1 C Strawberries
  • 1 C Blueberries
  • ¼ C Red Onion… sounds gross but just trust me.
  • ½ C Nuts (Pecans or Walnuts taste the best to me)
  • Feta Cheese * Optional

Side Note: I only put measurements on this recipe because some people have to follow something to a T. If you want more onion, add more onion. If you want less berries, don’t put as many. This salad is great because you can make it your own and to your taste.

This salad is proof that eating healthy doesn’t take long or taste bad! If you make this, let us know what you think! We would love to hear your version.

Enjoy!

No such thing as one size fits all

How many pairs of jeans do you have to try on before you actually buy a pair? For me, it seems it is well over 100! Most are too long, some are too tight on my thighs, some are too high on my waist; the list goes on. With our bodies being so unique, how can we expect a set of diet rules made for the “average” person to work and be maintainable for everyone? The answer is we cannot; there isn’t one pair of magic jeans that fit everyone.

According to the health research fund, 65% of people who complete a diet program gain all of their weight back in the first year. 95% of people gain all the weight they lost back in under 5 years. These popular diets reel you in with drastic success stories and show you how much weight Susan lost after she completed program X and how you can too! The real question is, where is Susan now? How does she look a year after the program? Two years? Five years? It says something about the diet industry that not one program follows up with their success stories years later when statistics clearly show that is when the most people gain their weight back.

Last year the diet industry reported an income of 66 BILLION dollars. How can they be making so much money when so many people fail? They make money BECAUSE people fail. They set up these unrealistic rules for everyone to follow yet they are nearly impossible to maintain. The industry, literally, banks on you failing so when you decide to do something about your new weight gain you in turn buy the next latest and greatest tool they claim works for everyone.

None of this is to say that all diets are bad and we should boycott every single one. In reality, there is something to learn from every experience but like the jeans it’s not a one diet fits all; there are no magic jeans. It is about making changes that are healthy and fit into your lifestyle. Changes that you can maintain and that help you reach your goals of being a healthier you; finding the jeans that fit just right.

Priorities

“I don’t have time for….” I’ll let you fill in the blank. This is such an exhausted excuse. Your problem isn’t the amount of free time you have, it’s your priorities. We all have the same 24 hours in a day, and it is how you spend those hours that brings you closer or further from your goals.

Do you watch Netflix at night? Do you go out to dinner with your friends every weekend? Do you spend your free time with your significant other? I am guessing the answer is yes. You have committed time to watching a show that you enjoy. You have made an effort in spending time with others and building relationships by doing the things listed above. Over time, the relationships have grown and you continue to be friends with those people. You have made all of these things a PRIORITY.

Why do we not hold our health to the same standard? You wouldn’t tell your friend, “Okay I am going to be a good friend when I have time and then the rest of the time I am going to be a jerk and/or just ignore you.” If this were the case I am willing to bet that friendship would dissipate over time, JUST like your health. If we don’t take care of our bodies and make them a priority, it is safe to assume that we are going to see health problems down the road, whether it be weight gain or more serious problems, like high blood pressure.

We justify our priorities with statements such as, “They don’t work as many hours as me. They have time to do that, I don’t. Their life is easier than mine. They don’t have X number of kids. They don’t have my same problems.” WRONG! Stop playing the victim because you are equally as capable. Instead of going out every weekend, go out every other. Use that time you would spent sitting at dinner to meal prep, go to the store, get in an extra workout, read a self-help book, anything that aligns with what you are trying to accomplish. All of these excuses are just that, excuses. I am sure the person who you are comparing yourself to has/had their own hardships that they had to overcome but they made their goal a priority and that’s why they are successful.

The ‘I don’t have time’ excuse is old. We all have time. It’s what we make time for and how we prioritize our time that set us apart from the rest.

How are you going to prioritize your week? What are some goals that you need to make time for? Write it down, put it on your calendar, and plan it out. Don’t plan it in your head, put it on paper and start making your goals a priority. #piorities